Charismatic people are Masters of Tongue Fu.
They realize that one of the most important moves in Tongue Fu, is to lose the “I’m more impressive than you” contest.
Too often, first meetings descend into a “my penis is bigger than yours” contest – or the female equivalent – to determine who is master of the business universe.
If someone is better than you at something, it’s ok to admit it….. a little vulnerability is endearing.
If you think about when you’ve had an awesome conversation with someone, it’s likely that whilst the other person was interesting, they were far more interested in you.
When it comes to getting a black belt in Tongue Fu, you have to prove that it’s not about you, it’s about them.
Tongue Fu Masters don’t do fluffy small talk. Their conversation is clear, concise and above all, invigorating.
As the ancient Tongue Fu scripture says, “If you’re looking for fluff, go pet a bunny“.
This great post was written by my good friend Sunil Bali who will be speaking at one of my mastermind events in the near future. In the meanwhile, here is his contact details. I recommend you sign up to his blog.
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